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Anxiety, Attachment & Relationships
Writings to meet you in every season.
anecdotes, encouragements, and practices


The Sunday Scaries — An EFIT Look at Work-Life Anxiety
Why Sunday feels like an attachment threat. An EFIT perspective on work-life anxiety, the internal negative cycle, and reclaiming your professional agency.


Healing Your Anxious Attachment: Finding Stillness in the Storm
Beyond the "needy" label. We look at the biological reality of anxious attachment and the journey toward finally feeling secure in your own skin.


"Not Good Enough": How the Inner Critic Sabotages Your Relationships (And How to Heal It)
Do you often feel “not good enough” in relationships—overthinking your words, shrinking back, or apologizing for simply having emotions? This inner critic, often rooted in childhood attachment wounds, can sabotage connection and self-worth. Therapy, especially Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT), helps you break this cycle, build emotional security, and heal from the inside out.


6 Things Emotionally Attuned People Don't Do
they blend emotional insight with rational thought, creating a balance that informs wiser, more compassionate responses to life’s challenges


Understanding Big-T & Little-T Trauma
Traumatic experiences are a common facet of the human experience, and they can have profound impacts on our mental, emotional, and physical


Relationship Anxiety: Healing Attachment for Thriving Relationships
Relationship anxiety can be overwhelming and leave you feeling unsure and disconnected.
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