Behold Counseling
Marriage & Family Therapy

Kelley Kuit | LMFT
Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist #139895 | Clinical Supervisor & Founder, Behold Counseling
Emotionally Focused Therapy for Anxiety, Grief, and Relational Trauma - Individuals & Couples
I'm the founder and Clinical Supervisor at Behold Counseling, where I train and oversee every therapist on our team in Emotionally Focused Therapy (EFT) — the same approach I use in my own work with individuals and couples navigating anxiety, grief, relational trauma, and stories that go back further than any one conflict. Whether you work with me directly or with one of the therapists I've trained, you're getting the same grounded, attachment-informed care.
Why I Do This Work
I've been where you are.
I've done my own healing in individual therapy — working through anxiety, depression, and trauma — and, alongside my husband of 15+ years, doing the same kind of attunement work I now offer couples: turning toward each other, repairing ruptures, and rebuilding emotional safety one honest conversation at a time. That journey shaped what I believe: our pain, our mistakes, our past don't have to hold us. There is always a path forward, even when we cannot yet see it.
My time in this field has taught me many things, but above all, it has taught me that it is a privilege to be a witness to another person's life. To behold their story. To walk alongside them as they grow, grieve, heal, and discover who they are becoming.
My Approach
EFT starts from a simple belief: underneath the anxiety, the argument you keep having, the ache you can't quite name, there is almost always an unmet need to feel safe, wanted, and not alone. My work isn't to reason that need away. It's to build the kind of emotional attunement, grace, and hope that make healing possible. I believe there is always a way through the wilderness, even when we cannot yet see it.
For individuals, that often looks like understanding how old wounds are still shaping how you cope and connect today. For couples, it means interrupting the cycle you keep getting stuck in and rebuilding real safety with each other.
I also bring particular attention to the cultural and generational layers that often shape anxiety, family stress, and relationship patterns — especially for Asian American, multicultural, and first-generation clients balancing family expectations, generational differences, and their own sense of identity. That understanding shapes how I train our whole team, not just how I work individually.
Common Areas I Help With
Individuals
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Anxiety, depression, and burnout
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Trauma, PTSD, and childhood wounds
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Grief & Loss
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Faith, identity, and spiritual concerns
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Sexual Trauma and Relationship Pain
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Attachment wounds and emotional dysregulation
Couples
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Communication and recurring conflict
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Emotional disconnection and feeling like you're drifting apart
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Rebuilding trust after betrayal
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Premarital and marital counseling
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Repairing ruptures rooted in cultural, generational, or family-of-origin differences
Clinical Background
I received my Master of Science in Counseling Psychology, with concentrations in both Professional Clinical Counseling (PCC) and Marriage and Family Therapy (MFT), from California Baptist University. During graduate school, I worked as an Advocate for Sexual Assault Survivors and as an ABA Behavioral Interventionist. I completed my practicum treating adults with chronic mental illness before moving into private practice, where I trained under a Certified EFT Therapist & Supervisor.
I'm now a Licensed Marriage & Family Therapist and the Clinical Supervisor at Behold Counseling, specializing in Emotionally Focused Therapy for both individuals and couples. I personally train and oversee the therapeutic approach every associate uses — so no matter who you work with at Behold Counseling, you're getting attachment-informed, EFT-grounded care I stand behind.
Specialized Training:
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M.S. in Counseling Psychology (PCC & MFT concentrations), California Baptist University
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EFIT Level I — Emotionally Focused Therapy for Individuals
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EFIT Level II — Trauma-Focused Emotionally Focused Therapy for Individuals
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ICEEFT Externship — Emotionally Focused Therapy for Couples
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Advanced Core Skills — Emotionally Focused Therapy with Couples
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Training in Intergenerational and Collective Trauma
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Sexual Assault Advocacy — 40-Hour Certification Training
If anything here resonates with you, I'd love to hear your story.
"Remember not the former things, nor consider the things of old. Behold, I am doing a new thing; now it springs forth, do you not perceive it? I will make a way in the wilderness and rivers in the desert."
Even in the wilderness seasons — the anxiety, the grief, the relationship that feels stuck — I believe a new thing is possible, and that it's often found through relationship rather than in isolation. That is the heart of Behold Counseling.
Feel free to reach out by emailing Hello@beholdcounseling.com














