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Therapy for Anxiety, Trauma, and Relationship Patterns

Attachment-focused therapy for adults and couples who feel stuck in cycles of overthinking, emotional overwhelm, or disconnection in relationships.

 

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Telehealth sessions available for California​ residents

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You might be experiencing…

Sometimes the hardest part of emotional struggles is that they don’t always make sense. You may find yourself reacting strongly in moments you wish you could stay calm, or feeling overwhelmed by emotions that seem difficult to explain.

Many of our clients notice experiences such as:

  • your mind replaying conversations or decisions long after they’ve happened

  • sudden waves of anxiety or panic that feel hard to calm

  • feeling emotionally flooded in conflict, then withdrawing or shutting down

  • wanting closeness in relationships but feeling unsure how to stay connected when emotions rise

  • feeling exhausted from constantly trying to manage your thoughts or reactions

These patterns are often connected to how our nervous systems learned to respond to stress and relationships over time. Therapy can help make sense of these reactions and create space for new ways of responding.

HOW THERAPY CAN HELP

Therapy that supports understanding and lasting change.

Our work focuses on helping clients slow down and explore the emotional experiences that shape how they respond to themselves, others, and the world around them.

Through this process, many clients begin to:

• Feel less overwhelmed by anxiety and emotional stress
• Develop greater awareness of their internal emotional experiences
• Understand how earlier experiences influence present reactions
• Respond to difficult emotions with greater stability
• Experience deeper connection and clarity within relationships

Rather than focusing only on symptom reduction, therapy can support a deeper sense of emotional security and self-understanding.

Our Services

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INDIVIDUAL THERAPY

Individual therapy for people who feel overwhelmed by anxiety, emotional intensity, or a nervous system that rarely seems to fully settle.

Many clients come to therapy feeling caught in cycles of overthinking, panic, emotional reactivity, or shutdown. Together we explore the patterns beneath these experiences while helping the nervous system develop greater stability and regulation.

Common experiences we work with:

• panic attacks or persistent anxiety
• overthinking and mental rumination
• emotional overwhelm or shutdown
• difficulty understanding or managing emotions
• relationship patterns that feel hard to change

COUPLES THERAPY

Couples therapy for partners who feel stuck in painful interaction cycles — where one partner pursues, the other withdraws, and both feel increasingly misunderstood.

 

Using attachment-based therapy and Emotionally Focused Therapy, we help couples slow down these cycles and understand the deeper emotions driving them.

Couples often seek therapy when they notice:

​• arguments that escalate quickly or repeat
• one partner pursuing while the other withdraws
• feeling reactive or easily triggered in conflict
• emotional distance or disconnection growing
• wanting closeness but struggling to repair after conflict

ATTACHMENT & NERVOUS SYSTEM WORK

Much of our work focuses on understanding the emotional and relational patterns that shape how people respond to stress, conflict, and connection.

Attachment and nervous system work explores how earlier relational experiences influence the way we interpret emotions, regulate ourselves, and respond to others. These patterns often operate automatically, which can make our reactions feel confusing or difficult to change.

By slowing down and bringing awareness to these patterns, therapy helps people develop greater emotional steadiness and more secure ways of relating to themselves and the people around them.

Meet Our Therapists

Our therapists share a foundation in attachment-focused and trauma-informed care while each bringing their own clinical strengths.

For Providers

If you are a physician, psychiatrist, or university counseling professional seeking therapy referrals for a patient or student, we welcome collaboration. Behold Counseling provides outpatient psychotherapy via telehealth for adults, students, and couples navigating anxiety, trauma, and relational concerns, utilizing approaches such as EFT, EMDR, and IFS.

We accept several major insurance plans as well as private pay.

As a group practice, we are often able to connect clients with a therapist who fits their needs.

Use the Schedule / Refer button above to submit a HIPAA-compliant referral or consultation request.

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