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When You're Tired of Holding It All Together

EFT and EMDR — evidence-based therapy for anxiety, relationship patterns, and lasting change.

Maybe you're tired of feeling this way.

You may be doing all the "right" things on the outside, but inside it can feel overwhelming, exhausting, and lonely

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Your mind won't shut off

"Why can't I just let this go?"

  • You replay conversations in  your head.

  • You overthink texts, tone, and small reactions.

  • You need reassurance, but feel embarassed.

  • You apologize even when you're unsure why.

  • You know you're overthinking, but can't stop.​

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Your relationships feel stuck

"Why do we keep having the same fight?"

  • You feel misunderstood, unseen, or unimportant.

  • You shut down or pull away when things get tense.

  • You reach for connection, they pull back.

  • You love each other, but you're exhausted.

  • You want closeness, but it feels safe to keep your guard up.

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You're struggling with yourself

"Why am I never enough?"

  • You criticize yourself and hold impossible standards.

  • Rest makes you feel guilty.

  • You compare yourself to everyone else.

  • You feel like you should be handling things better.

  • Even when things go well, it never feels like enough.​​

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Your past still shows up

"I thought I was over this"

  • Something happened, but your body still reacts like it's happening now.

  • You avoid certain people, places, or conversations.

  • You have a hard time trusting.

  • You feel ashamed of things that weren't your fault.

  • It's affecting your relationships and how you see yourself.

You may have gotten very good at functioning.
But functioning isn't the same as feeling okay.

Therapy can help you understand what's happening beneath the pattern, heal what's still hurting and build a different relationship with yourself and the people you love.

Therapy that meets you where you are.

Individual Therapy

Support for anxiety, trauma, self-criticism, panic attacks, emotional regulation, and the patterns that keep you stuff

Couples Therapy

Strengthen connection, improve communication, and break free from cycles that keep you feeling distant.

Why Behold

Attachment-Based &
Evidence-Informed

Rooted in research & designed for real life.

Specialized
Training

Advanced training in EFT, EMDR, IFS and trauma therapy.

Clinically
Guided Care

Collaborative treatment planning with depth and compassion.

Culturally
Affirming

Welcoming and affirming for all backgrounds.

Licensed &
Supervised

You're in safe, ethical, and experienced hands.

We make therapy accessible.

We are in-network with several major insurance plans. We verify insurance on your behalf before starting care. 

 

Aetna

Optum / United Healthcare

 

Cigna​​

Anthem Blue Cross

Carelon 

Behavioral Health

Medi-Cal

Anthem Blue Cross Partnership Plan

Blue Shield

Blue Cross

Out-of-state plans

via Blue Card

Meet the Therapists

A compassionate team here to walk with you toward deeper connection and healing.

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Erin H. Kim | AMFT

EMDR & EFT, Chronic Anxiety, & Overcoming Shame

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Shannon Bruckbauer | AMFT & APCC

EFT with Couples, Emotional Issues, & Life Transitions

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Kelley Kuit | LMFT & Clinical Supervisor

Chronic Anxiety, Attachment Issues, Sexual Trauma 

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You don't have to keep doing it alone

We're here to help you feel more connected - to yourself and the people you love

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Behold Counseling
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Areas of Focus
Anxiety & High-Functioning Anxiety
Trauma & Attachment
Identity & Life Transitions
Relationship & Family Dynamics



 

Who We Support

Asian American & Multicultural Clients

First-Generation & Family Stress

Young Adults & Professionals

Christians & People of Faith

 


 

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